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Day 112 of AY20-21: listening to Learners

Tuesday, March 30th would be day 7 of cycle 8 for the Flying Squad, and day 112 of the pandacademic year. It would also be the first day we had two more Learners return from quarantine, which promised to make our day even better! As of day 112, we only had one Learner still out for quarantine and he was expected to return on Wednesday.

As they Learners began to show up they got right into hanging out with each other and connecting in ways that are difficult to do online. The Learners and Facilitator Ariel were busy practicing snapping their fingers, and teaching one another how to snap fingers, as I reminded folks that we needed to drink water.

At 10:00 a.m., we circled up for our morning meeting. Each meeting the Facilitators come with prompts, and sometimes we strike out with the prompts. On this day, Facilitator Ariel asked, what’s something non-food related that brought you joy this cycle? And how can we share that joy with others? Sometimes we ask these questions to spur great conversation, to provide us an opportunity to set intentions or to reflect, or as a way to center the needs of others. Sometimes they are just playful. The Learners were not really having the prompts on this day though, as the responses were pretty curt: sleep, filling trash bags, drinking water, drinking water, staying home (!), watching a guy play a ukulele and guitar, and laying in a hammock. The ways in which they could share that joy with others was even more curt, as three Learners said they couldn’t think of a way to share. We ended the meeting hoping that the day would be a bit more creative.

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In attempt to avoid coming across food trucks early in the day, which tend to derail the intentions of some Learners, we decided to go in the opposite direction for a change. Walking south instead of east we found a trail that would have potentially taken us all the way to the Barton Creek Greenbelt (maybe not). We ended up taking a small detour down a poison ivy lined animal path that came out in a dry river bed. We could not pass up the opportunity to play on the rocks and then get a killer picture that would become our next album cover. When we were finished we walked down a back road away from Barton Springs Pool, up a hill, and onto a disc golf course.

One of the Learners was really struggling on the walk, not because of the walking but because of allergies. His eyes were puffed up and he kept rubbing his eyes. We contacted his family, and they decided that they would come pick him up. In addition to that Learner, Facilitator Ariel and another Learner were really struggling with the high pollen count in the air that morning. But before he went home we got to play some soccer! I had picked up a soccer ball the night before, and plan to bring the ball with me on a regular basis moving forward. The Learner who planned to go home found time to introduce me to the intense sport of animal style soccer before he left. All the Learners eventually joined in on kicking the soccer ball around, except for one, but he found time to throw the football around.

After the Learner who was suffering from allergies left, I became a one-person audience for a Learner who wanted to share everything he knew about the video game Among Us. He told me about the new map that was coming out, what changes to the game would come with the new map, the different ways that characters could die in the movie, and then he got frustrated as I asked questions that were perhaps too obvious to him. I’m not particularly moved by video games, but I felt it was important on this day to entertain the conversation for the Learner.

Having taken the new route away from the drop off point allowed us as a group to avoid ruminating on food, which was a welcome break for the Facilitators. I also got to talk quite a bit with one of the Learners who had just come off of quarantine. I probably spoke with her more that afternoon than I had in the previous month combined. Her lunch got crushed in her bag earlier in the day so she decided that she would try out one of the food trucks that some of the other Learners could not stop talking about. But she was the only one willing to make the walk to the food trucks that afternoon, so it was just us walking, which allowed me to give her my full attention. It’s really easy for us as Facilitators (or educators or parents or even just as friends) to get so wrapped up in all the work we need to do that we forget to make time to just listen to people. And oftentimes the people who need to be listened to the most are the ones with the least power in our society. This includes kids.

While it was a fun day, for the old men of the squad, it was not the easiest day. My calf began cramping (drink water!!) and Facilitator Ariel’s knee started bothering him. We both made it through the day, though, and we finished up with a more engaging afternoon roundup. We reflected on our day via the rose-bud-thorn prompt, and then discussed ways in which we could improve upon the thorns in the future. After the Learners left, I jumped on our daily Facilitator roundup call with Facilitators Lauren and Ariel, and we identified what went well, what challenges we had and what areas for improvement there were, and action items for each of us. Facilitator Lauren said she had a really good day that included hiking, waterfalls, and ducks. Then we all said good bye to each other for the night, and I made my way to the lake for my monthly jump in the lake.

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Day 82 of AY20-21: what are we giving?

Thursday was day 82 of the pandacademic year and Facilitator Lauren opened the meeting with a review of practices and then opened it up for people to share announcements. Then each of us shared what we would like our first act to be as soon as the pandemic ends: drive to parents house, hug them, and cuddle with them; get ice cream with friends; go play at the park with my friends; go to Main Event and try to hang out with friends; say “oh, cool” and then go back to doing what I usually do; visit my aunt in Pennsylvania; go back to what I was doing; get in the car and take a really long road trip to the east coast to see friends and family; “same as [what other Learner said]”; go to Abrome and ride my e-bike; go to a pool with a high dive and a slide; gonna spend the day with my partner because we haven’t had more than two hours together like every four months. The answers tended to fall along age and technology lines. It seemed that older Learners and Facilitators wanted to go be with people they haven’t been able to see much during the pandemic, younger Learners wanted to go play with friends, and those in between tended to want to just go to places where other people were. And the ones who would just go back to doing what they were doing tend to spend a good amount of time interacting with others via their computers.

High fives!

High fives!

After the morning meeting I had a one-to-one check-in on Discord with the Learner who would like to go to a pool with a high dive and a slide. We talked about how the Abrome meetings were treating her, and about coming back together again in-person, hopefully soon. Then when we finished I jumped back on Zoom for the daily 7-minute workout with the usual crew. We all appreciated the movement early in the day and gave each other high fives before going our separate ways.

Coffee and read

Coffee and read

Next up was Facilitator Ariel’s coffee and read offering, which has not had a great turnout as of late. Nonetheless, we both enjoyed drinking caffeinated drinks, reading our books, and discussing our books at the end of the offering. Following coffee and read, Facilitator Lauren had two one-to-one check-ins with adolescent Learners, and the Learner from the second check-in then immediately joined me for another check-in.

In my one-to-one check-in we talked about the Jurassic Park movie series, and I told him I had no clue there were that many Jurassic Park movies. Then we talked about other movies series to include Star Wars and Jaws. I told him I tended to prefer stand alone movies, and had a hard time naming a series I particularly liked. I said, Cars, I guess. Looking back on it I probably would have added Bridget Jones. He was pretty disappointed, but not as much as I was when he said he hates Asian food. I said Asia was the largest continent that covered many different cuisines. He said he hated them all. I started to name out some of the more popular cuisines and he was pretty insistent that he preferred American food. I told him that when we are back together at the Abrome facility that he can join us on our treks around the city to sample different types of cuisines for lunch.

Sandman by Neil Gaiman

Sandman by Neil Gaiman

Facilitator Ariel followed up his coffee and read with another offering, a comic book reading that two Learners initially dropped in for. They began reading Sandman by Neil Gaiman, a graphic novel series about the inevitability of change. Once orientated (they googled a few summaries), they embarked on a plan to read a large section each week. While one Learner dropped off the call, the Learner who stuck it out until the end commented, “I guess this is just our thing!”

Stinging nettles (ouch)

Stinging nettles (ouch)

At 1:00 p.m. Facilitator Lauren went on a virtual plant walk with the Learner who also dropped in for the comic book reading. It felt really nice to be outside even though we are stuck meeting remotely during risk stage level five. During the plant walk offering Facilitator Lauren and the adolescent Learner discovered that spring greens are popping up all over! Stinging Nettles were the most exciting find, followed by Cucumber Plant and Cleaver!

Unfortunately no one came to my daily free write on Thursday, but that did not stop me from writing. But at the same time, the weather was so beautiful outside, and unseasonably warm (82 degrees!!), that I knew I just had to take advantage of the unoccupied time to keep my promise of jumping in the lake at least once per month this pandacademic year as per my polar bear club agreement with the Learners. I had a book reading offering coming up so I quickly trekked to the park, to the lake, into the lake, away from the lake, and back to Abrome all within my 45 minute window. It was cold and refreshing, and I hope March is just as kind.

The Tree Who Set Healthy Boundaries (alternate ending to The Giving Tree)

The Tree Who Set Healthy Boundaries (alternate ending to The Giving Tree)

While I was jumping in the water both Facilitator Ariel and Facilitator Lauren had one-to-one check-ins with adolescent Learners. I got back in time for my 2:30 p.m. book reading, and both of the Facilitators ended their check-ins in time to join me. Unfortunately no other Learners showed up for what I believe is just a beautiful story. Not The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein, although it is a nice story and I read that first, but The Tree Who Set Healthy Boundaries by Topher Payne, which provides an alternative ending that offers up a much better lesson to readers.

For those who have not read the alternative ending I am including a video of the reading here.

The reading only lasted 15 minutes, so we had some time between the reading and the afternoon roundup. I was able to use that time to do some financial and administrative work for Abrome.

The afternoon roundup was led by Facilitator Ariel. He started out by reviewing the practices from the Community Awareness Board, he gave folks an opportunity to share announcements, and then he used gameshifting to set the conditions of the responses to the prompt—popcorn. But before he got to the prompt he shared a quote from Denzel Washington (see picture).

Afternoon roundup prompt aid

Afternoon roundup prompt aid

Then each person shared how they felt they can give back to the people around them: I am good with my words and I find it easy to communicate so I can help organize people together and clean up lines of communication; treat people with respect, be a decent person; I don’t know; I can call out oppression when I see it, by being a friendly and nice person; not complaining when things don’t go my way; I have the capacity hold space for others, but I need to be in psychological fitness to be able to offer support; be a decent person; being friendly; doing what I can for the community. We noticed that some Learners repeated what others said. It might be helpful to ask folks to not repeat what others said at a future meeting, and to instead come up with something unique to them.

Day 64 of AY20-21: being remote together and separate, online and off

Morning meeting time

Morning meeting time

We headed into Tuesday hoping to build on the positive first day of our pandemic-induced, fully remote experience for cycle five (assuming Central Texas doesn’t miraculously begin to take the pandemic seriously in the next couple of days). Facilitator Ariel led the morning meeting. Because we had a larger group he needed to balance the need to make space for people to share while protecting people’s time by not having the meeting stretch into the day too much. He started by asking everyone in the meeting to share an offering they were looking forward to over the course of the week. Half of the responses were diverse, and half were not. The diverse responses included free write, Roblox, nature journaling, yoga, bike project, bike project, a check-in with a Facilitator, and Minecraft. And six people said they were looking forward to playing Among Us, again. Facilitator Ariel then asked if anyone learned anything new yesterday. While there were some interesting responses such as there are 1 quadrillion ants roaming the earth (disputed) and dynamic IP isn’t good for whitelists, most of the learnings revolved around Among Us: Abrome Learners are too ‘big-brained’ to lose, being honest can help you win the game, Marlowe bullies me (said in jest), [Learner] is sneaky. While the goal was to keep the meeting short it started to stretch out as a couple of Learners kept jumping in to ask each other questions, set up meetings with Facilitators, or to try to organize gatherings on Discord. Before things got too out of control Facilitator Ariel adjourned the meeting and encouraged folks to communicate with each other on Discord.

After the morning meeting I had offered to tinker around with the Rubik’s cube with Learners who found it fun while we were in person, but with us being remote it just did not move anyone to want to participate. So after waiting around for five minutes I decided to do some easy administrative tasks and prepared for the 7-minute workout. I was pleased to see three folks show up for the workout, and it looks like we will have the same folks showing up each day, with hopefully some Learners dropping in from time to time. We are just holding space for the Learners and inviting them in if they choose.

Coffee and read

Coffee and read

Facilitator Ariel followed up the 7-minute workout with a coffee and read offering, where we all grabbed some coffee and sat down to read. Much like my free write offerings the turnout for these offerings are not expected to be very large, and the only people who joined were me and Abrome’s oldest Learner. After getting a tour of all the bikes that Facilitator Ariel has in his apartment (among three people) while we brewed our coffee, we settled down to read. I was reading Curious by Ian Leslie for my Education Conversations book group conversation later in the week, the 18-year-old Abrome Learner was reading These Truths by Jill Lapore, and Facilitator Ariel was reading the Coyote's Guide to Connecting with Nature. The hour flew by but each of us came away quite pleased with the offering. Even though we were not directly interacting during the offering it was nice to feel as though we were in the same room, drinking our coffee, reading good books.

At noon I decided to join the Among Us offering that was so popular the day before. I joined the Learner who was hosting the offering as well as two other adolescent learners. They had to wait for me to figure out how to download the app on my tablet which had previously only been used to fly the drone, and they waited quite some time before I realized the tablet was so old that it was not able to download the app without a system update. Frustrated they asked if I could just put it on my phone, which I did. We then got to playing. While the Learners all find Among Us to be a fun game I was quite confused. I did not get the point of the game and ended up just running around trying to avoid getting killed. I realized that I could call a meeting so that we could vote to decide who the imposter was and that that was my best hope of winning any rounds. Yet I did not. I’ll give it another go in the future.

The American woodcock

The American woodcock

Facilitator Lauren held a nature journaling offering at 1:00 p.m., and an older Learner decided to join her for it. Facilitator Lauren went on a hike just before the offering and saw an American woodcock among some prickly pear cacti, and decided to sketch the bird and share her observations in her journal.

Facilitator Lauren also had two one-on-one check-ins with Learners on Tuesday. Because we are entirely remote one of the Facilitators requests at least one check-in with each Learner each week just to touch base. Some Learners are often around and communicate, while some are only around for the morning and afternoon roundups. We also have two Learners who simply do not like being remote and do not regularly show up for meetings, either. So these one-on-one check-ins are really valuable for many of the Learners, and most certainly for the community, as we try to bridge this remote period during the uncontrolled community spread of Covid-19 in Central Texas.

At 2:00 p.m. I hosted a free write offering and was thrilled that two Learners showed up. The 13-year-old Learner who often shows up for free write during remote periods attended, as did the 18-year-old who was making the most of the offerings that day. The 13-year-old Learner chose to work on a new book that she had hoped to get published, the 18-year-old Learner did some stream of consciousness writing in her journal, and I worked on a blog post about how the problem is not so much remote schooling as it is the pandemic. After the free write was over I looked at the clock and saw that I had just enough time to rush off to a nearby park for my monthly jump in the water as part of my polar bear plunge commitment to the 13-year-old Learner. It was 70 degrees and based on weather forecasts this was as good as it was going to get. It was a cold dip in the water, but I am quite grateful to be in Austin during the winter as opposed to most other parts of the country. February is going to be rough though. I then rushed back to Abrome for the afternoon roundup.

Facilitator Lauren was leading the afternoon roundup and with one fewer attendee than the morning she decided to offer up three prompts. She asked the Learners what offerings they participated in, what the best thing they ate was, and what the best part of their day was. Because many of the Learners did not show up for any offerings they did not have an answer for the first question. But for those who did, the favorite was Among Us, with coffee and read coming in second. Nature journaling, free write, and the 7-minute workout all got a single vote, as well. As for food it ran from the healthy to the unhealthy: leek soup, bananas, dates, eggs, broth, chicken with rice, grilled cheese with turkey, peanut butter and jelly sandwich, chocolate chips, ice cream, apple cinnamon Cheerios, Dino Nuggets, and Monster. The favorite part of the everyone’s day unsurprisingly included gaming for many: playing Rogue Lineage, playing Minecraft, playing Fall Guys, hanging with friends online, and playing with friends online. But there was also non-gaming favorites, as well: nature journaling, shaving all the hair off of their head, writing the first part of their new book, journaling, one-on-one with Facilitator Lauren, breathing, doing art, and visiting the greenbelt with a guardian.